Ello! This discussion is going nowhere at this point. Instead of telling people to stop "trying" here, you should rather focus on understanding their perspective.
@Squishy If you're really looking to get some advice or feedback, you need to respect people's opinions, irrespective of how much you disagree with them. I understand your point and your question related to "
How you can get nice comments," but it's a universal fact that you simply can't get nice comments when you can't respect your audience in the first place. As I said earlier, if you're really looking to get a nice comment on your videos, you need first to embrace "the dumb comments" that you usually get on your videos. Irrespective of how dumb those comments are, you need to maintain your calm and act as a businessman because, the way I see it, YouTube or any social media platform is a business if you're planning to grow your community or your presence. You can't grow unless you treat your followers or subscribers nicely.
If they're provoking you by talking otherwise or making fun of your voice, be a bigger man and ignore those comments. If a few subscribers or watchers are treatin' you badly, it doesn't mean you will mistreat or consider all of your watchers are like that. That's not how it works. If someone is making fun of your voice, you have features or tools at your disposal that helps you to delete those comment and add an additional layer of security to your comment that blocks or restricts the offensive comments.
You know what? I have been to your place once, and I understand what you are going through ( voice mostly ). Of course, it gets quite frustrating, but when you stop giving them satisfaction and make them understand whatever they say or do, it will not bother you; that's when they will stop provoking you. Now, this isn't something anyone will say, but if they make fun of you, you should comment something funnier or just laugh it off! It sounds dumb, but that's how you can tackle "negative" comments or people.
Now do note that you shouldn't change who you're just because some people are making fun of you; embrace it and move on. You have thousands of subscribers, I suppose? And if it weren't for your unique skills and abilities, you would have never reached the point you're at. So don't let them demotivate you here, and at the same time,
DON'T MISTREAT YOUR OTHER SUBSCRIBERS! Trust me! These dumb subscribers/ or ones who comment on such silly questions will be your long-term subscribers! You need to be really neutral when you reply to them. Remember, the customer is always right, and they're your customers! You're making content for them, and when they give you any feedback or ask you something, just pretend they know nothing! If they're dumb, let them be; you can be smart and just answer it calmly, or ignore the question altogether if you feel they're just questioning you for the sake of trolling.
Now, this is something I can advise you; whether you want to take the advice or not, it's up to you.
To conclude, there isn't anything we can advise at this point; Of course, I will let this thread open for a bit more to see if you can find any more answers from our community related to the ways you can tackle and get nicer comments, but frankly, there's no "strategy" for that. People are going to be commenting on what they feel about you. All we can do is just ignore those negative comments, or ; just reply to them in a tactical manner so they eventually stop.
P.S. While I understand you might be frustrated, I don't tolerate disrespectful behavior toward our community members. So, a humble request: if you don't like someone helping you out, that's fine, but don't simply say that the person shouldn't be replying to this or stop trying to help you. They're free to comment whenever they want in this forum; we don't restrict people where they should interact.