Ooof! No way would I go for 100,000 or 200,000, those file sizes would be INSANE! Even 30,000 was insane for me. I now keep to 15000.
Have you actually looked at the video it'self in creator studio AFTER uploading to ensure it's finished processing? My last few videos sat processing for several hours in SD format. The final video WILL be HD, but sometimes for a while when processing, a video will stay at SD (480p I think) until fully processed. There's no progress bar or indicator for how long it takes, you simply have to look at your video to make sure HD is there as well as SD. It can take quite a while. Sometimes it's taken as quick as 5 minutes, other times it's taken as long as 4-6 hours, that will make it appear pixelated even if the source footage is being uploaded at 1080p. It WILL be available at 1080p eventually, you just have to be patient and wait.
Also be aware that YouTube ALWAYS includes its own compression AFTER upload.
MKBHD explains this a bit in this video
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JR4KHfqw-oE&ab_channel=MarquesBrownlee
Also, the SlowMoGuys did a video explaining how small details in a video in a patterned or glittery way, will add a lot of compression in post processing through YouTube. There's no way around this as YouTube are going to add their own compression during processing. Matter of fact, I think this is EXACTLY why some videos take so long to process, because YouTube is trying to optimise the compression in a way to find a balance between detail, and streaming/buffering resources.
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BtYKDamqo2I&ab_channel=TheSlowMoGuys